Most American shoppers still have a favorite brand. They are just visiting it a lot less. A new survey of 10,000 consumers suggests that the emotional bond between people and the brands they love is holding up reasonably well, while the habit of actually buying from those brands is slipping away.
What the New Brand Loyalty Data Shows
The research, conducted by SAP Engagement Cloud and reported by CX Dive on September 24, found that 71% of U.S. consumers say they have a favorite brand they love and trust, down only slightly from 73% a year earlier. The behavior behind that sentiment moved much faster. The share of consumers shopping frequently at their favorite brand fell from 63% to 53%, and the share recommending it to others dropped from 48% to 42%.
Put simply, customers still say the right things about the brands they like. They are spending with them less often and talking about them less. For marketing teams that measure loyalty through brand-tracking surveys alone, the gap between those two numbers is easy to miss.
Why Customer Retention Metrics Can Hide a Slow Decline
Loyalty programs and sentiment surveys were designed for a world where affection and purchasing moved together. When they separate, a brand can look healthy on a quarterly report while its most valuable customers are gradually splitting their spending with competitors. Nobody announces that they are leaving. They simply come back every five weeks instead of every three.
The survey points to the reasons. Fifty-seven percent of respondents cited cost and reduced product quality as reasons for switching brands, and more than a third pointed to poor customer service. Price pressure gives shoppers a reason to try alternatives, and a single disappointing experience gives them permission to stay away a little longer.
Frequency Is the Loyalty Metric Most Brands Ignore
Pablo Gerboles Parrilla has built his marketing philosophy around a principle he states plainly: “Consistency beats intensity.” Applied to customer relationships, the idea is uncomfortable for brands that pour budget into big seasonal campaigns. A single large moment can lift awareness and sales for a few weeks. It does very little to protect the everyday habit that keeps a customer returning.
Visit frequency, time between purchases and the share of a customer’s category spending captured by the brand are all better early warning signals than a satisfaction score. They are also harder to track, which is why many companies skip them. A decline in frequency usually shows up months before a decline in stated loyalty, and months before a customer disappears entirely.
The Service Gap Behind Shrinking Recommendations
The drop in recommendations deserves particular attention. Word of mouth is the cheapest acquisition channel any brand has, and it depends on customers feeling confident enough to put their own reputation behind a product. When more than a third of consumers cite poor service as a reason to switch, that confidence becomes fragile.
The SAP data also found that three in five shoppers feel more loyal to brands that make them feel personally valued. That finding matters for companies that have automated their support to cut costs. Automation can make service faster and more consistent. Used carelessly, it can also make a loyal customer feel like a ticket number at the exact moment the relationship is being tested.
Building a Customer Retention Marketing System
Gerboles Parrilla has described his approach to marketing as combining creative ideas with the systems that keep them running. For loyalty, that means treating retention as an operating system rather than a campaign. The components are practical: regular tracking of purchase frequency for known customers, service recovery standards that trigger when a customer has a bad experience, and communication timed to a customer’s normal buying rhythm rather than the brand’s promotional calendar.
Brands that invest in customer retention marketing tend to find that the math favors them. Keeping an existing customer on a regular schedule is almost always cheaper than replacing a lost one, and a customer who returns frequently is far more likely to recommend the brand to someone else.
Quality and Price Still Decide the Relationship
No retention system can fully compensate for a weaker product or a price that no longer feels fair. With 57% of consumers citing cost and quality as switching factors, brands that have trimmed ingredients, shrunk packaging, or cut service levels to protect margins should expect customers to notice. Those decisions show up in frequency data long before they show up in brand sentiment.
The pattern reaches well beyond retail, and it applies as much to the software, marketing and live entertainment businesses run by serial tech entrepreneur Gerboles Parrilla as it does to consumer brands. Customers are generous with their goodwill and much more careful with their time and money. The second is the one that pays the bills.
Reading the Loyalty Numbers Correctly
The headline finding from the survey is easy to misread as good news, since most consumers still have a favorite brand. The more important finding is that affection no longer guarantees attendance. Marketing leaders who want an honest picture of loyalty can start by adding one question to their next quarterly review: how often are our best customers actually buying from us compared with a year ago?
If that number is falling, the brand still has time to respond, because the goodwill is still there. Waiting for the sentiment scores to confirm the problem means responding after the habit has already changed.
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